“I don’t actually believe in balance. What I believe in is harmony. There’s a big difference.”
Founder and CEO of Teamwork Athletic Apparel
Creating balance in life can be as daunting and stressful as the rest of the never ending ‘To-Do’ tasks. There just never seems to be enough time to squeeze it in and check ‘balance’ off the list. Harmony, on the other hand, doesn’t require everything to be in balance; it simply requires every chaotic and messy moment to live harmoniously among the others. Harmony allows all areas of your life to co-exist with one another in a way that promises surrender and peace in the constantly fluctuating world around you.
Here are 4 steps to to hone harmony as you go about your daily life:
Be Gentle with Yourself
You’re going to get stressed, you’re going to make mistakes, you’re going to face challenges that you don’t respond well to. Beating yourself up over these stumbles serves no one; least of all you. You’re human and you’re beautifully flawed. Embrace that and forgive it. Give yourself the same love, acceptance and support that you consistently offer those around you.
Set Boundaries by Creating a Start & End Point
It may sound like yet another rule or task, however being gentle to yourself includes setting boundaries for yourself. Saying no or saying goodbye to relationships or obligations that drain you in an necessary way are all part of creating room–and creating harmony–in your life. Take stock of where you are in your current relationships, health, life, goals and career and think of it as your starting point. Chart a tentative plan for what you’d like these areas to look like–not from a balance standpoint; from a harmony standpoint–and focus on making the small but significant changes needed to get to that end point. And of course, don’t forget to lean in, learn, grow, and enjoy the challenges presented along the way.
Taking a deep breath in the middle of situations that threaten to overwhelm you is one of the simplest and quickest ways to hone harmony. Consciously remind yourself to let it go; let go of the need for balance and try to focus on finding harmony within the given circumstance. Breath allows us to surrender to many things; frequently. With each inhale, absorb everything at hand, and with every exhale, allow it to move through and away from you. Like a silent shield of internal protection.
Nourish Your Body
Honing harmony also entails creating health and vitality in your body. If you’re stressed, fatigued, eating poorly or relying on caffeine and sugar to keep you moving through the day, you’re ability to breath, set boundaries and be gentle with yourself is compromised. Make nourishing your body via whole foods, daily physical movement and adequate rest just as much a priority as other areas in need of your immediate attention. This will allow harmony to start at your core and radiate outward.
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